#QOTD: My Husband Doesn’t Like My Natural Hair, What Should I Do?

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Q: My husband doesn’t like my natural ’fro and I’m playing around with the idea of perming it again or at least getting a texturizer. What are your thoughts?

A: If you chose to go natural in the first place then it must have been important to you. Your natural hair is beautiful and it’s what you were born with. Sometimes learning to love it can take a while for you and your partner if you aren’t used to that look.

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We suggest keeping it for a little longer and maintaining a daily hair journal listing what you love about it and what you don’t. Try to add one or two more positive lines then negative each day and see if that helps. Ultimately, it is up to you — but these steps might help you make a decision.

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